Day 24 – What Attracts Me In Love

Here are what attracts me in love…

#1 Intelligence

When I was in Grade 6, there was a cute guy in another classroom who expressed interest in me. He said he wanted me to be his girlfriend. I invited him to church and also tried talking to him with different things but he couldn’t say anything that make sense to me. Since I was young, I wanted a meaningful and intelligent conversation. When I got to college it became the top trait that I want. I want someone who I can argue with different issues and would make me think and defend my reasons.

#2 Music

I am always attracted to a musician. I guess because I like to sing so much and I feel like musicians have deep personalities which I really like.

#3 Kindness and Respect

I know there are women who don’t like goody-goody guys because they say there’s no challenge, but not for me. I like guys who are really respectful and kind even to other people. I don’t like guys who shouts during arguments because for me there’s no self-control and respect in it. That’s what I like the most about my husband. We had major arguments but never did he raise his voice at me. We talk with respect for each other.

#4 Empathy and loyalty

I’m very loyal and committed in my relationship and I want my partner to be the same. When I started dating my husband, I made it clear that he can’t go out with any woman  unless I permit it because it’s necessary. I told him he cannot entertain other women. I told him I want total honesty. He agreed because he said if I were to go out with other guys, he would not like it also. Now in every situation he puts himself in my shoes and think how he would feel if I do a certain thing.

#Tall and Long eyelashes

I don’t know why I like someone who is taller than me. Maybe because I like to be wrapped around with someone’s arms especially when walking together. I feel so secure and loved. I also like guys with long eyelashes, I really find it attractive. I’m lucky because my husband has those physical features that I like.

How about you? What attracts you in love?

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